Growing up in New Jersey gives you a certain attitude. When I finally “came out” and told the world that I was bipolar, in the usually “Jersey way” I did it with humor and shock. I accepted who I was and knew that those that accepted me came to cherish “Crazy Rob” for his candor, frankness, and shock humor.

Only after you come out, can you identify who loves and accepts you for the individual you are. I always had a smart-ass answer or comment to make, and those that accepted me were never offended.

I relocated to Nashville four years ago and it’s a very different culture here. I found that there were some who were willing to understand my illness and thoroughly enjoy my friendship. Unfortunately I found that there were some that have preconceived notions about mental illness and to be blunt, they don’t like anyone they see as different.

I want to be graceful about this as possible so not to offend anyone. I see the challenges I face in the South as an outgrowth of morale conservatism and religious fundamentalism. It’s very had to be different here. Outside of my job, there’s one think I won’t do, and that is NOT be proud of the individual I am, and being bipolar is an important part of me.

To those that don’t accept me, I make sure I get a rise from them in the process. Since this is only my second entry I won’t go into the explicit shock details at this time. I can however, guarantee that many will really get a blast from my behavior.

On a closing note, NEVER be ashamed of your illness! To those who condemn, vilify, or trivialize you tell them where to go!!!

Rob

Tags: Mad Pride Humor

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