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Posted On 11/02/2009 13:57:11 by STAGEPROMO

i was appalled to hear about the gang rape of a fifteen year old last week in california. We'll have to make room for one more casualty to a world gone awry.

Our world is becoming full of bullies. Bullies at school, Bullies in the workplace, Bullies in Congress. Bullies are everywhere. Hell i've even seen bullies in the checkout at the grocery store. One of us had stated in a previous blog about the end of days and how the demons will cover the earth. i too, fear that time has come.

We are not paying attention people! There is definitely a very real threat to our homeland security; and its in the form of bullies.

The internet is full of blogs by folks who've been, or are currently being bullied. We, as regular thinking, reasoning humans turn to those who're bound by their position, whether it be a guidance counselor, or the shop steward, or the HR Dept. to help us in dealing with this terror.

My son was bullied till he was eight. i went to the guidance counselor, who said, "Well, this goes on all the time. He needs to develop a thicker skin. Maybe tae kwon do would help." Four years of education to become a guidance counselor and thats all you've got? The bully, who was two years older, later that year ended up killing his own cousin while "pretend" wrestling.

i was bullied out of the theatrical union after blowing the whistle on gross malfeasance to the international, resulting in a full investigation and the local being placed in trusteeship. The local president has been brought up on Federal charges. Other "executives" (yeah right! Read; frat boys) are currently under investigation. But THEY still get work! Me? i'm out here in the cold.

And so it goes...

What i'm trying to say here is...We all know someone who, tho they be totally nice sweet, upright people..They get bullied easily. They dread going to work. They dread going to school. They dread going home. They know theres a bully waiting for em'. If you DO know someone like that, or are, or ever have been, then PLEASE; PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL A SENATOR, OR A CONGRESSMAN, OR A REPRESENTITIVE AND TELL THEM THEY HAVE TO ENACT LEGISLATION TO STOP RAMPANT SHOOL AND WORKPLACE BULLYING.

It is a violation of our human rights!

Tags: ANTI BULLYING LEGISLATION



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From: mfinley98
01/12/2010 12:19:12


From: STAGEPROMO
11/18/2009 13:32:52

sweetea- Sorry but your comment kinda triggered me.


i'm quite certain that in many cases, Family of Origin (FOO) has alot to do with bullying behaviuors, but to BLAME a parent for having to go out and work just makes it harder for someone like me to dael with. i've ALREADY been blamed for having this dis-ease- i can't help the fact that my husband went from making 96K to zippo- and was unemployed for over two years. i HAD to go back to work.


my kid was bullied in school, as i had already discussed in the blog, but HE was not a bully. And what i was mainly referring to was the overall dimension of bullying behaviour in our society as a whole today. NOT just in the schoolyard.


i did, when i could, devote alot of time volunteering at my kids schools. i met alot of bullies. i met alot of very good decent folks whose kids are bullies. i cannot neccessarily attribute all the fault to the parents alone. Much of this behaviour is learned in the schoolyard and/or the workplace as a fitting in mechanism-its just easier to follow the lead dog and stay with the pack, whether right or wrong than it is to take a stance and be ones own individual.


OH! would that i had had a toney little lifestyles of orange county existance- instead of having to go out and try to earn ANY kind of living- just to keep bread on the table!


i live with the regrets of every time i had to leave my babies and go out on the road, but alas, it was neccessary. But, i DON"T and will not live with blame heaped on me by anyone who may never have had to face these realities.


ONE THING I HAVE LEARNED THRUOUT THIS ENTIRE PROCESS. DO NOT JUDGE LEST YE BE JUDGED.


i've had alot of folks comment on my less than conventional lifestyle, i.e.- life as a roadie. It is wholly and totally ones own opinion. But, like buttholes and bellybuttons, every bodies got one. Don't blame me for it. i blame myself for enuf of everything as it is.


And more perhaps, one may not understand my position. i worked as an IATSE union stagehand for ten years. i saw a wrong. i stepped up and tried to right it. For that; i was literally BULLIED out of the union, and they colluded to smear my name and reputation for it. it is impossible for me to get a job now because of it. SIX YEARS LATER and it still continues.


"In a world of hypocrisy and lies, Telling the truth is a revoluntionary act"- George Orwell


My only consolation in all this is the slow turning of the karmatic worm. Those that scorned me have been paid back in karma in some very fitting ways- from ones broken back to anothers outing (and federal investigation on charges of embezzlment) as one of the ones most vocal in my condemnation, to lost digits, and one even has just recently been diagnosed with cancer. Petards get hoisted in the most amazing ways!


i DO NOT blame any of these peoples parents one iota for what they have colluded to do to me. These are grown folks who should be equipped with some moral turpitude of their own. It ain't always momma'n'daddies fault!


BULLYING in the schoolyard AND in the workplace especially is a very real and constant danger in todays world. It drains the workforce of the good, and capable and reliable, and makes it easier for lazy, opinionated idiots to prosper.


Theres alot of those still in my local that know what a raw deal i got. But they can't say anything, other than something defamitory against me, or they'll find themselves in my position. This is just the climate of fear we all exist in today. Thanx dubya!


i have depressive brain syndrome- i got it from my mom, who got it from hers. but, i ain't ever gonna blame her for it.




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